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Yes, he died.. and I wasn't suprised

Journal Entry: Tue Aug 12, 2014, 7:26 PM




It was last night. I was sitting with my boss and two co-workers at a restaurant in Ybor City when one of them said "Did you hear that Robin Williams died?  I heard it was suicide."

My response:  "I'm not really surprised."

I wasn't.  They were a bit taken aback by that.

To me, it was obvious. 

If you've suffered from depression for any significant length of time in your life, you can see it in others.  No matter how shiny and wonderful their outward appearance is, there are still signs of the sinkhole that once opened up under their lives.  You can fill the hole and prop everything back up, but rarely is everything put back to the exact level that it was before. 

And, you never forget that your mind once betrayed you.

When you finally come to the realization that your brain, the one organ in your body runs you, defines you, and dictates what you are, just can't seem to make you want to enjoy the life it regulates (or makes you want to end the life it regulates), it is a betrayal you can't walk away from.

And, once you hopefully recover, you realize that so many other things in life that people get wound up about really aren't that important.  You realize that living life to the point of enjoyment is a greater gift than anything else that you can achieve.

BUT- you have to accept the betrayal, acknowledge the illness and realize that it's life-long.  The pills and therapy are not a cure.  They are a therapy for your condition.

Robin Williams shiny, brilliant exterior belied the problems that he had.  He freely admitted them, but we mostly ignored them:  alcohol abuse, cocaine abused, marital/relationship problems... all signs of a problem that's not being treated as it should.

I'm sure that the rumored financial issues contributed to his choice.  But, he certainly could have pulled himself out of that with some acting jobs and some real estate sales.  Other stars have done it, and he could have as well.

This is not written to disrespect Robin Williams.  He was brilliant and funny, and he will continue to be so for a very, very long time.

He was facing a horrible monster that I have also faced, and it's not a pretty fight.   And maybe Robin had a longer way to fall if he lost than I did.

Robin, rest in peace.   We understand, and you haven't lost our respect.

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